I woke this morning feeling a little sad. Tomorrow will be valentine's day & that made me think of my parents. My Dad loved valentine's day or any holiday that he could give my Mom a present. He would spend hours in the store looking for the perfect gift. He would usually end up buying her a piece of costume jewelry that he knew that she would just love. She usually hated it, but she would never tell my Dad that. She would wear it with proud & tell everyone that Dad gave it to her. My sisters & I are the only ones that ever knew the truth. When Mom died I inherited her jewelry box with all the costume jewelry in it. I will never wear any of it, but I take it out every now and then just to look at it & remember the love that Mom & Dad shared.
My Mom & Dad knew each other their whole lives. Mom was 5 years old when her family moved next door to my Dad's family. Dad always said that he knew from the time he was 12 years old that he was going to marry my Mom. They never had much money, but they had awhole lot of love for each other. They were married Sept. 16, 1950 & the only time they were ever apart was when one of them was in the hospital. They had alot of good times & alot of rough & sad times. They buried two daughters & a grandson that they adored.
Dad was sick for a few years before he died, so it was no surprise when he passed away on Feb. 4, 2007. Mom was in pretty good health for being 74 years old, so it was a great shock when she passed away just 10 months later on Dec. 19, 2007.
When people ask me what my Mom died from I simply that them the truth, she died from a broken heart. She could not face life without her best friend & soul mate, so she simply gave up & now she is in heaven dancing with my Dad.
The jewelry box will be handed down to my granddaughters someday, along with the stories of their great grandparent love for each other.
I can only hope & pray that they find that kind of love one day.
I know that I can speak for my brothers & sisters when I say Happy Valentine's Day Mom & Dad. We love & miss you very much.
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